You NEVER have to be who you were yesterday, 5 years ago, or even 5 minutes ago.
You’re allowed to change your mind, over and over again, without owing ANYONE an explanation.
You and ONLY YOU are in control of your words, thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and actions, and if there’s something you wish to change about yourself or your life, you have EVERY. DAMN. RIGHT. TO. DO. IT.
(Read that again)
We often forget that we have this ability because we are too busy wondering what other people think of us or want us to be.
We are caught up in trying to act like we think we “should” so that we can fit in to society’s standards. (Meanwhile we watch the life being sucked out of us like a lemonade through a straw on a hot summer day.)
WE are the ones keeping ourselves locked in a box of limitations, so much so that we BECOME the emotions and habits of the illusion of who we think we are.
Breaking free from this ‘self’ that we project to the world requires a change in thinking, acting, and being.
We have to shed EVERYTHING we thought to be true about ourselves and adopt a brand new personality more aligned with who we desire to be.
When we start making these choices to show up differently, it can freak other people out. They’ll start questioning you about why you’re ‘different’.
Maybe they’ll even try to guilt you into going back to the old you.
This all happens because YOU changing brings out THEIR discomfort. YOU start shining the light on areas of their life that they may not want to acknowledge, see, or feel.
They want you to be who you used to be so that they can continue to feel comfortable.
By you changing, they don’t know what to expect from you, and that ‘threatens their safety’. By this I mean that you have disrupted a continuity in their life and they don’t know how to handle it or what to do…you shocked the system.
But you owe NOTHING to ANYONE and YOU are 100% allowed to change your mind, your beliefs, your feelings, your words, and your actions ANY TIME that suits you, if that means you are more aligned with who you want to be.
You don’t have to stay who you used to be just because someone else wants you to.
Nah, sis. You get to be WHOEVER THE F*$K YOU WANT.
Break the cycle. Choose YOU.
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