How do you turn heads? It’s not what you wear, it’s all about how you FEEL wearing it.
That’s right, CONFIDENCE is what turns heads.
It’s like the Men’s Warehouse ad that says “when you look good, you feel good”, but I’d go as far as to also say the opposite is true- when you FEEL good, you look good.
Confidence looks good on you and you should wear it more often.
How you feel about yourself says a lot about what you think is possible in your life.
If you want to be next level but don’t feel like you can get there (or you’ve been trying and nothing’s working), check in with yourself about how you REALLY feel about being next level.
Here’s a quick exercise that I do on the regular that helps me step up:
Put yourself out into the future at a point where you’ve achieved what you want. How does it feel to be this person? Walk through a day in the life of this version of you. Connect with how it feels.
Now, check in with where you’re at. How do you feel?
If it’s not great, feels super far away from where you want to be, or has any unappealing emotional charge- great!
That means you’ve found a block! You don’t even have to know what it is or where it came from to get rid of it!!!
All you have to do is be willing to sit with the feeling. Ask it if there’s anything it would like you to know. Then sit some more.
It really is that simple.
When the energy shifts from the acknowledgment and willingness to explore, new perspectives will become available to you.
Here you will be able to easily see ways to move forward and level up because the illusions of fear have been cleared.
How confident are you in your ability to do/be/have what you desire in life?